There's three of you in the bed, not two or four, so one person will sometimes feel left out – and start getting paranoid.ĭo they fancy the new person more than you? Are they enjoying themselves more with them than they do with you?
I had no idea the two men were going to interact as well!' is a common reaction.Įven if you can handle it, thoughts of 'is he bi-curious or secretly gay?' can plague you afterwards. 'I watched my man's hand reach over to grab the other guy and then lean forward for a kiss and I was so shocked I've never recovered. In your fantasy, both the men focus on you.
If it's a male/male/female combo, watching your boyfriend or husband interact with another man can also be quite a shock. Sexpert Tracey Cox warns that a threesome can lead to pitfalls in your relationship
